Wednesday, July 18, 2012


I have to say first of all, not every father is a dead beat dad, then again some are.  I used to watch the news on tv, and I remember quite a number of times seeing some sort of "Sting" to get "Dead Beat Dads".  They would show a photo, usually a mug shot and underneath it say "Owes $20,000 in Child Support!"  "Owes $7,000 in Child support" "Owes $100,000!!! in Child Support!!!".
     See my dad and my mom were divorced, I lived with my mom.  My dad was so rich from my point of view, had a house, had 2 cars, had a jet boat and an airplane...an airplane.  Yet he only saw fit to pay my mom $100 bucks here a $100 bucks there.  Maybe $500 a year give or take.
      And I would see these guys on TV and think thats my dad, those kids live just like me because of him not paying.  I am not ashamed to say at the time I hated them.
     Then me and my wife seperate, we have 3 kids.  My wife understands how to work the system, I'm responsible for 3 kids, 1 of which has never lived with her and the other 2 only for maybe 7 months.  She files for state aid, instantly they state says, "if you need aid lets rape the father, how many kids live with you"
     Since she went first and said 3 kids lived with her it was now my responsibility to prove it was not true, she needed no proof it was, and if I had been a bit faster our roles might be reversed (ya right, one CPS dude told me to stop trying to get out of paying when I was trying to get the correct 2 kids on the order).
     Also because of a paternity issue about our boy (we had been married in '96, our boy born in 2000) he was added after which, ladies and gentleman, brought the grand total to.....You ready....$11,780 in past due child support, with a monthly garnishment of $1466!!!  Yes my fine readers I had become one of those dads on tv in a day.
     This is what is wrong with our government, they want to protect and defend and guide so fucking much that anyone with an average IQ can work the system (latest I heard is buying food with food stamps at walmart, then returning the merchandise without a receipt to get cash), and once you get that aid yer set...Fucking surf and turf every night followed by some $20 a pound cheese and a box of wine...
     The system is so biased towards preconceived sterotypes, the mother is always a better parent, a guy with past due support is a dead beat...  This is bullshit!  Why is it that we can't have someone, ANYONE, with an IQ higher then a tree frog (which rules out my case worker), just talk and visit the family?  Before you take %65 of my wages (and before you say they can't, they can't take more then %50 if you are supporting another family...I am not which allows them to take %65) find out WTF is going on!  Require proof from both parties.. Only thing having a vagina guarentees id a period..and Im guess thats not even true.  Sometimes the Father IS the better parent, sometimes that deadbeat dad just lost his house, his pension, his retirement, his car, his kids, and the motherfucking dog and he just can't pay what they want.  How can someone get $100,000 behind in child support?  3 years of litigation with amonthly support of $2777.  It happens becaused its based on your income versus hers.  Our system is fucked, few people want to actually solve the problem, and sorry all you carpet licking vegan womanists, the system is sexist (and shave yer damn armpits..Its nasty)
     All I gotta say now is fuck you Mr. CPS.. yer a joke that is actually harming my kids because yer all a bunchy stony egotistic cunt waffles.

What I'm trying to do

Ok this here is gonna be a place for me, don't give a fuck if ya look at it..  I will be doing reviews (mostly so I can remember what I have read/watched/played) and venting like a mofo.

So peace